Catholic matchmaking for women that want something real.

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You’ve done everything right—and you’re still waiting.

You’ve prayed novenas, helped host the parish gala, signed up for Young Adult retreats, and built walls around your heart as you built your career in the meantime. You download the apps to remain open and then you delete them when it feels like you’re trying to be “in control” of your love life so you go to adoration, again, to surrender your desires to the Lord.

A dining table set for two in a warm kitchen, symbolizing readiness for shared life, companionship, and belonging.

But the truth? Your heart is still longing for your special someone.

Someone to laugh with, pray with, cry with, make a home with, grocery shop with, dance in the kitchen with, and start a family with…

And your desires for those things is good.

But you’re starting to believe that “this marriage thing” is not for you.

And you’re tired of feeling like wanting that makes you ungrateful—or worse, desperate.

I see your heart, sister.

I believe wholeheartedly in your Sacrificial Ever After.

And while there are no words that can I can say to console your heart, I can assure you I will do everything in my power to find your husband.

Madigan, founder of CommitmentISM, holds a Catholic book on dating, reflecting thoughtful formation and faith-centered guidance.

I built CommitmentISM
because I was equally as “over it”

My name is Matchmaker Madigan and I help women meet intentional, faith-filled men through a process that’s prayerful, private, and surprisingly personal.

No endless swiping. No exhausting speed dating. No wondering if you’re the only one who still believes marriage is sacred.

Just a simple, guided way to meet someone who’s looking for the same kind of forever you are.

Curious if this could be the thing that finally makes sense?

How It Works

You begin with a confidential profile that goes deeper than most apps, because I genuinely want to get to know you. Your likes, dislikes, dating history, future goals, and the attributes that make you YOU!

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2.
Find a Time to meet

If I have someone for you, I reach out and find a time for us to all have a 3-way phone call (call me old fashioned!)

3.
Conversational Chemistry

I begin the call in prayer, and then I leave. So 1) that I can open up the phone line and ease nerves 2) your number is protected and 3) because praying for/(with?) your future husband is precious.

Take a day to sleep, pray, and discern if you need to see a photo to make your decision. This isn’t marriage, it’s just whether you want to get to know him further.

4.
Following the Call (get it?)

If it’s a mutual “yes” phone numbers are shared and we send you on your “Marry” little way! (That’s a joke, start with a date!)

If it’s a no, we are happy to talk next steps with you!

5.
Make a Decision

No mystery. No algorithms. Just a better way forward.

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Questions women ask me the most

  • Yes, and I get why you’re asking. Most matchmaking databases average only 10–20% men. CommitmentISM consistently stays closer to 35–40% men and 60–65% women. I work intentionally (and persistently) to find good men who should be married. I promise, I’m not leaving that part to chance.

  • I don’t believe it’s ever the wrong time to find love. Was it too late for Elizabeth to conceive “in her old age”? For nothing is impossible with God. While kids might be another story, finding love doesn’t have an age limit.

  • Men often say they’re drawn to women who respect and honor them, who care for their bodies with an eye toward future family life, and who are in a season open to marriage and children. This isn’t meant to discourage you, it’s meant to inform you. Not all men are the same, just as you aren’t meant to be. You are uniquely you, and that matters here.

  • I think that proper healing is an important part of dating so I have relationship coach partners who work with you on mindset if there are any concerns.

  • Imagine if men actually told you exactly what they wanted. Well, they do that with me, and they don’t fill out our 40+ questions if they aren’t serious about marriage.

  • I created the priority for women to work with us on a more cyclical basis. Madigan personally knows how much more emotionally exhausting dating can be for women so you can be all in for 3 months if that’s what works best for you.

  • Then let me hold some of it for you for a while. This process isn’t just about meeting someone; it’s about remembering what hope feels like again.

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What happens when you date differently with CommitmentISM

Women feel seen in a space that’s become “Hot or Not”

Men actually have chosen to share phone numbers without seeing photos because the conversations were that good.

You feel comfortable being yourself because your Wingwoman Madigan started the call and then created calm through prayer.

There is a spirit of safety knowing that your phone number is protected unless you’re ALSO interested in him.

Control feels like it’s back in the Lord’s hands and in His time, it will be your turn.

Your sweet, feminine side gets to come out because you didn’t have to plan the first date, we did!

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You’ve been praying for a husband.
Will you answer the call?

It only takes one “yes” to change everything — and “future wife” sounds good to you.

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