Who I Serve

Catholic matchmaking for people who are ready for marriage—not just curious about dating.

If you’re looking for something real, intentional, and rooted in faith, you’re probably closer than you think.

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I work with Catholics who are open to marriage and willing to approach dating with intention. People who care about faith, character, and emotional maturity—and who want introductions that respect their dignity, time, and discernment.

  • You’re practicing (or sincerely seeking to practice) your Catholic faith

  • You know yourself well enough to name what you’re looking for

  • You value honesty, humility, and humor as much as attraction

  • You’re ready to meet someone who wants the same level of intention

You Might Be in the Right Place If…

A Gentle Note on Fit

This work depends on honesty and readiness. I may not be the right fit if you’re still in another relationship, resistant to reflection or feedback, or hoping to keep things casual “just to see where it goes.”

If that’s where you are right now, you’re not doing anything wrong. It just means this might not be your season yet.

What Happens Next Depends on You

Everyone who works with CommitmentISM begins the same way—by joining the Date-a-Base. From there, some people stay quietly in the background, while others choose more proactive support.

This page is about fit.
The pages below are about details.

You’ve done the work. Now you need a process that honors it.

You’re ready to lead—but tired of guessing what women really want.

Choose the level that’s right for you.

Ready to experience a more human way to meet?

Join the Date-A-Base

You don’t have to have it all figured out.

You just have to be honest about where you are. Discernment works best when it’s unforced—and when people are treated like people, not profiles.

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