Madigan, founder of CommitmentISM, sits confidently in a chair, smiling warmly and conveying trust and approachability.

Who We Serve

Catholic matchmaking for people who are ready for marriage, not just curious about dating.

If you’re looking for something real, intentional, and rooted in faith, you’re probably closer than you think.

Who's in my database

For Men

For Women

Who I Serve (and Who I Don’t)

I work with Catholics who are open to marriage and willing to approach dating with intention. People who care about faith, character, and emotional maturity—and who want introductions that respect their dignity, time, and discernment.

That means you:

Know who you are and what you’re looking for.
Are practicing (or sincerely seeking to practice) your faith.
Value honesty, humor, and humility as much as attraction.
Are ready to meet someone with the same level of intention.

I may not be the right fit if:

You’re still in another relationship (or not fully healed from one).
You’re resistant to feedback or reflection.
You’re looking for something casual “to see where it goes.”

I love you. I just can’t match you yet.

Gender Split (%)

Age Ranges (%)

We work with Catholic men and women age 22+ who live in the United States are free to marry in the Church & serious about building a Sacrificial Ever After.

Where our network lives

This map shows where members of our Date-A-Base live
The deeper the blue, the larger our community in that state.
Dense areas help us introduce people faster, but it’s expanding daily!

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