If you’re here, you’ve probably deleted the apps twice already and still want something real. You’re in good company.
You’ve already done the “just try harder” approach. Let’s try wiser instead. Two starting points, one mission: helping Catholics meet with intention, peace, and a touch of serendipity.
I SEEK MARRIAGE
For: “I want momentum, feedback, and priority.”
If you’re ready for a guided, prayerful search and clear next steps, this is where to begin.
What it is: A four-month, higher-touch track where I actively search for you, guide you, and keep you front-of-mind for new and existing profiles.
Includes:
A personal onboarding call with me (prayed-in, practical, usually with a few laughs)
Profile refinement and clarity around your non-negotiables
Prioritized matching across my roster and trusted Catholic networks
Phone-first introductions (Conversational Chemistry), opened in prayer
Short debriefs after each call—what clicked, what to tweak
Option to be anonymously featured on my podcast, Love That (a “Sleepless in Seattle”-style segment that draws in potential fits)
Ongoing support and encouragement throughout your four months
Best for:
People who want momentum, accountability, and someone actively searching on their behalf. You thrive here if you like clarity, feedback, and knowing someone is advocating for your story.
Maybe you’re open but not rushing. Maybe you want to dip your toes in before jumping all in. This path keeps things light, respectful, and low-pressure.
What it is: A free roster where I keep your profile on file and contact you when a strong match appears—most often for my I Seek Marriage clients.
Includes:
A short readiness call (so I never introduce strangers)
Consideration anytime a potential fit aligns with you
Per-introduction match fee only when we set up your phone call
Same prayed-in, phone-first process; same respect and privacy
Best for:
People who want to stay open without the pressure of a timeline. You thrive here if you prefer gentle serendipity, low-commitment beginnings, and trusting that grace can work quietly.
Mutual “yes” before any photo exchange. Attraction follows connection.
The same five-step process, curated by a human—not an algorithm.
Dignity, privacy, and clear boundaries at every turn.
Your information and photosare never public.
Either person can decline at any point, gracefully and without explanation.
Confidentiality is absolute. If we run into each other at a parish event, I’ll pretend we’ve never met. And I never reveal who is or isn’t in my database.
A per-introduction match fee applies to both paths before your first prayed-in call. It’s about shared investment, not transactions.
Compare At A Glance
I Seek Marriage
Date-A-Base
Priority in Matching
I actively search for you and keep you top-of-mind
Considered when fits for ISM clients arise
1:1 time
Deeper onboarding + ongoing check-ins
One readiness call; follow-ups when matched
Visibility / feature
Optional anonymous spotlight on Love That
Not featured
Typical time to first intro
Often within first few weeks (varies by readiness)
Opportunistic—when a fit appears
Ongoing support
Coaching notes, clarity calls, encouragement
Quick debriefs after any intro
Investment
Four-month engagement; higher investment with transparent terms
No cost to join; per-intro fee only
Flexibility
Upgrade or extend anytime
Upgrade anytime
Photos Policy
Shared only after mutual yes
Shared only after mutual yes
Intro format
Phone-first, prayed-in
Phone-first, prayed-in
Privacy
Always confidential
Always confidential
(Exact pricing is discussed in your consult so we can consider age range, geography, and readiness.)
You can move between paths anytime — upgrading, extending, or switching without losing momentum. We simply carry forward what we’ve learned about your story.
Timeline & Expectations
Here’s what the first four months usually look like—steady, prayerful, and refreshingly human:
Onboard & clarify (Weeks 1–2). We refine your profile, confirm pace, and name what matters most.
Active matching (Weeks 2–14). I search, review, and arrange one thoughtful introduction at a time. Most clients hear from me within the first few weeks, but quality drives timing.
Discern & adjust (ongoing). After each call, we debrief—what worked, what didn’t, what grace might be revealing.
Decide next steps (Weeks 15–16). Continue, extend, pause, or celebrate—wherever the Holy Spirit and good sense lead.
After a No: We debrief privately, refine what we’re looking for, and keep moving. No black marks, no awkward loose ends — just clarity and the next step.
Date-a-base flow:
You complete the intake and readiness call.
I reach out when an aligned fit appears.
Once both say yes, the per-introduction fee applies and we begin your prayed-in call.
Conversational Chemistry: Why we start with a call
Looks can start a spark; voice grows it.
Beginning by phone lowers bias and lets you hear the person’s humor, calm, curiosity, and faith.
I open the call in prayer and then step back—because connection unfolds best when it’s not forced. Photos are exchanged only after you both want to continue. It’s a rhythm of respect over reaction.
The Holy Spirit has better timing than any algorithm.
“My husband and I were setup by the matchmaker on a blind date and were engaged just 9 months later. We are so thankful for her openness to the Holy Spirit and His prompting to set us up on the first and last blind date of our lives.”
— “A” (currently married).”
“I was very pleased with this matching service. The approach to matching and setup for the first date was unique and thoughtful, creating the conditions that laid the foundation for our relationship.”
— S (ended up dating for over a year)
You’ve been praying for a spouse. This could be your next step.
It only takes one “yes” to change everything — and bravery looks good on you.
