Catholic matchmaking that treats marriage like a vocation, not a hobby.

A human, faith-grounded process—no apps, no swiping—built for singles who want more than dates. They want a sacrament. Because you’ve outgrown the swipe-and-pray approach.

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Meet someone who’s actually ready

Start with real conversation, not guesswork

Feel hopeful about dating again

You’ve prayed, grown, served, waited. You’ve tried the apps, the singles groups, maybe even a speed-dating night or two—and still haven’t met someone who shares both your faith and your desire for marriage. At this point, you’ve prayed every novena and still ended up third-wheeling at Theology on Tap.

It’s not because you’re behind. And it’s not because you’re asking for too much.

It’s because finding a Catholic spouse today isn’t simple—and it was never meant to be an algorithm. And honestly, the bar for “good enough” has gotten way too low.

You’ve done everything “right.”
So why does Sunday night still feel quiet?

Here’s where Matchmaker Madigan enters the chat.

I’m Madigan Maere, a Catholic matchmaker who believes marriage is a vocation, not a game of chance. My job is to see what’s still possible, to introduce people who are actually ready for the same kind of love you are—and to make the process feel human again.

Curious if this could be the thing that finally makes sense?

For Women

You’ve done the work. Now you need a process that honors it.

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For Men

You’re ready to lead—but tired of guessing what women really want.

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What Catholic matchmaking can actually do for you

Catholic matchmaking isn’t about outsourcing your love life, it’s about reclaiming hope in it. At CommitmentISM, we walk with you through a process that helps you meet someone—and meet yourself—with honesty, faith, and purpose. It’s not an algorithm; it’s accompaniment.

Here’s what starts to change when you stop swiping and start discerning:

1. Clarity.

Intentional discernment so you can stop second-guessing God’s plan—and finally recognize the kind of person who fits your vocation and your life.

2. Confidence.

Personal guidance so you can stop wondering whether you’re “doing it wrong.” You’ll feel steadier, clearer, and actually supported as you take each step.

3. Authentic Connection.

Phone-first introductions so you meet someone as a person, not a profile. Real voices, real warmth, real “conversational chemistry,” and it matters.

4. Privacy.

Confidential matching so you can open up without feeling exposed. Your information and photos stay private until you say yes—because dignity isn’t a bonus, it’s the baseline.

5. Faith Alignment.

Catholic formation at the center so you can date with integrity, peace, and a shared understanding of what marriage really means.

6. Hope Restored.

Human connection so dating stops feeling like emotional whiplash and starts feeling like possibility again—where discernment becomes joyful, not draining.

How We’re Different

We see the soul first.

A quick look at how we match, pray, and introduce with intentionality

Modern dating forgot that you’re a whole person—not a profile to be scanned or a photo to be judged. CommitmentISM exists to bring dignity back to the process, replacing swipes with conversation, hurry with discernment, and surface-level attraction with something sacred.

Here’s what that looks like in practice:

Human, not an app.
Every match is prayerfully chosen by me—not software. I get to know you as a person, not an algorithmic guess

Phone-first introductions.
Your first meeting happens by voice—where tone, warmth, and curiosity actually live. I open the call in prayer, then step back so connection can unfold naturally.

Discernment-first pace.
No pressure, no rushing, no “keep the funnel full” mindset. You get space to pray, reflect, and choose with peace.

Dignity & privacy.
Photos only after a mutual yes. Everything confidential by design.

Ready to experience a more human way to meet?

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See why discernment—not speed—changes everything.

If you’re tired of “we’ll just see what happens,” welcome. This is a process with purpose, prayer, and actual next steps.

1. Apply

A confidential profile that shows me who you are—not just who you think you should be.

2. Meet with Madigan

A real conversation where we figure out your pace, your non-negotiables, and your “please God, not again” list.

3. Conversational Chemistry

Your first meeting is a phone call opened in prayer. I introduce you, step back, and let actual connection take the wheel.

4. Mutual Yes

If you’re both interested, we exchange photos and you discern your next steps together. Zero pressure. Zero panic.

5. Ongoing Support

You get guidance, encouragement, and a safe place to sanity-check the process.

No mystery. No algorithms. Just a better way forward.

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My husband and I were setup by the matchmaker on a blind date and were engaged just 9 months later. We are so thankful for her openness to the Holy Spirit and His prompting to set us up on the first and last blind date of our lives.”

“A” (currently married).”

I was very pleased with this matching service. The approach to matching and setup for the first date was unique and thoughtful, creating the conditions that laid the foundation for our relationship.”

S (ended up dating for over a year)

Still wondering how it works in real life?

  • Only after a mutual “yes.” You’ll talk first—by phone—and once both of you feel the spark, photos are shared privately.

  • Completely. Your information isn’t public, and introductions happen one-to-one. It’s confidential by design.

  • Then we call it what it is: information. You say no kindly, I update what we’re looking for, and we keep moving.

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You’ve been praying for a spouse.
This could be your next step.

It only takes one “yes” to change everything — and bravery looks good on you.

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