I’m the matchmaker who believes you’re not “too late,” “too picky,” or “too much.”

I’ve sat where you’re sitting. I know this road—its hope and its heartache. And I built CommitmentISM to give Catholics a more human, faith-rooted way to meet someone worth the yes.

You don’t need another app.
You need a wingwoman.

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I started CommitmentISM to help Catholic men and women find each other—and themselves—through a process that actually honors both vocation and personality.

Because everyone has a story worth hearing. I’ve met people who swore they were “too particular,” “too late,” or “too much,” and I’ve watched grace prove them wrong. There really is a lid for every pot—sometimes it just takes the right matchmaker to see the pattern.

I believe that healthy, authentic relationships between hopeful, faith-filled Catholics can change more than two lives—they can change humanity for good. And that’s why I do this work: to make Catholic matchmaking more human, more hopeful, and a lot more honest.

What CommitmentISM Stands For

The name is more than a clever acronym—it’s a way of seeing love through the lens of faith.

C — Catholic.

Faith isn’t a footnote—it’s the foundation. I work with people who take their spiritual lives seriously and want to build a marriage rooted in that shared belief.

I — Intentional.

No swiping, no guessing. Every introduction is thoughtful, prayerful, and designed for discernment.

S — Serendipitous.

Because grace has good timing. We stay open to the quiet ways God brings two stories together.

M — Matchmaking.

Human-to-human connection—guided by prayer, not algorithms.

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What makes this different.

This is matchmaking, with a pulse.

Human Matchmaking

No swiping, sorting, or algorithms—just real introductions made through prayer, conversation, and discernment.

Phone-First Introductions

Every match begins with a conversation opened in prayer. I set the tone, then step back so you can actually connect.

Discernment-First Pace

You move thoughtfully, not reactively. There’s room for grace between “hello” and “I think this might be something.”

Dignity & Privacy

Photos are shared only after a mutual yes. What’s sacred stays confidential.

If you’re nodding along so far, you’ll probably love what happens next.

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How I Work

Right now, every match still passes through my hands—and my heart.

I read every profile, listen for the story beneath the surface, and pray over each potential introduction. I look for alignment in communication style, emotional maturity, family vision, faith expression, humor, and pace—but also in something harder to name: the way two hearts might fit together.

After years of doing this, I can tell when someone’s ready—and when God might still be writing a little more of their story first.

When I sense two people might complement each other—not just on paper but in spirit—I arrange what I call the Conversational Chemistry Call.

That’s where I open the call in prayer, introduce you both, and then quietly step out. Because good matchmaking isn’t about control—it’s about creating space for grace to move.

If you feel a little spark of “I think I’m ready,” that’s usually the Holy Spirit nudging. Start here.

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Who I Serve (and Who I don’t)

I work with Catholics who are ready for marriage—not just curious about dating.

That means you:

Know who you are and what you’re looking for.
Are practicing (or sincerely seeking to practice) your faith.
Value honesty, humor, and humility as much as attraction.
Are ready to meet someone with the same level of intention.

I may not be the right fit if:

You’re still in another relationship (or not fully healed from one).
You’re resistant to feedback or reflection.
You’re looking for something casual “to see where it goes.”

I love you. I just can’t match you yet.

Part Calling, Part Training

My work is grounded in Catholic ethical standards of integrity, confidentiality, and respect for the dignity of each person.

CALLING
Before becoming a Catholic matchmaker, I worked as a wedding planner—helping couples prepare for the day they’d been praying for. That work deepened my love for the sacrament of marriage and my conviction that good stories start long before the aisle.

TRAINING
I hold training in psychology and theology, formation in Catholic teaching on marriage and vocation, and professional experience in relationship coaching and discernment guidance.

My approach blends theology, psychology, and practical experience—but most of all, faith in how God writes love stories.

How CommitmentISM Compares

Dating Apps

Fast, endless swiping
Calculated, performance-driven
Algorithmic and looks-based
Low-cost subscription

CommitmentISM

Long-term compatibility built on faith and honesty
Thorough, confidential, and honest
Personally discerned and prayed over
Affordable, transparent, value-based

Traditional Matchmaking

Transactional outcomes
Vague or embellished
Quota-driven
Expensive, subjective

The CommitmentISM Covenant

Everyone I work with agrees to five shared values that make this community work:

This isn’t just about matchmaking. It’s about forming a culture of discernment, respect, and holy curiosity.

Honesty

about who you are, what you want, and what you’re ready for.

Clarity

communicate openly; no disappearing acts.

Courage

show up with faith, even when it feels vulnerable.

Charity

speak kindly, assume goodwill, and handle every introduction with grace.

Confidentiality

protect others’ stories as sacred.

A Note from Me

If we were sitting across from each other right now, I’d probably tell you that I get it. You’ve tried to do everything right. You’ve trusted, waited, and maybe even lowered your expectations just to make something work.

I’ve been where you are. I know what it’s like to feel hopeful one day and over it the next. But I’ve seen what can happen when two people show up with faith and honesty—it’s how my own story began.

But here’s the truth: you don’t need to try harder. You just need a better way.

And that’s what CommitmentISM is—a better way.

I believe in marriage, in grace, and in laughter that starts mid-conversation.

I believe God writes good stories—and sometimes He lets me help edit the introductions.

If you’re ready to move from waiting to walking forward, I’d be honored to walk with you.

It only takes one “yes” to change everything—and bravery looks good on you.

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